The relationship between Michael Oher and Sean Tuohy Jr. has — like Tuohy himself — grown dramatically in the 10 years since Oher was brought by Tuohy's family into their home in the leafy suburbs of Memphis.
If those early years became the genesis of a best-selling book and a hit movie that documented Oher's transformation into a college football star at Mississippi and the No. 1 pick of the Ravens in 2009, this year takes the brothers' relationship to another place.
In Baltimore, call it The Other Side.
When Tuohy tweeted last October that he was coming to Loyola University to play basketball, it meant he would be reunited with Oher, who has been a mainstay on the Ravens offensive line since being drafted.
Since Tuohy arrived last month to take part in Loyola's summer workouts and start classes, Oher seems as excited to have family nearby as Tuohy did when his parents took in Oher. The younger Tuohy is living on campus, but said he usually sees Oher "two or three times a week".
"We've always been close, I always looked at him as a little brother, we always played games together, always been a sharp kid and he's turned into a great guy," Oher said during last month's minicamp in Owings Mills.
Asked if Tuohy has grown from the precocious, know-it-all 8-year-old whose movie character interrogated the likes of big-time coaches Nick Saban and Lou Holtz when they came recruiting Oher — a characterization that Tuohy joked was "unfortunately accurate" — Oher smiles.
"Definitely not the same guy in the movie," Oher said. "[He's] sharp, smart. Just a good all around kid, fun to be around. I had him and some of his teammates over and we watched the [NBA playoff] game and the [Manny Pacquiao -Timothy Bradley] fight. He definitely can handle it, very mature, very smart. You don't have to baby him or anything like that. He's definitely his own man."
Tuohy said his big brother had a "huge influence" on him growing up.
"The three things that I took from Mike was that if you were not having fun doing what you were doing, then don't do it," Tuohy said last month in the school's student center. "He loved playing basketball. I looked at him playing basketball when I was an 8-year old kid and thought 'Basketball must be the greatest thing ever.'
"Another thing Michael said — and my dad also said — was that if he wasn't working, somebody else was. He was always out there, seeing him train so much set the standard for me. Mike was always going hard, so that's what I did. When he was on the field, he was all business, when he was off the field, he was a fun-loving guy. You leave your attitude at the door."
Though Tuohy seems to have a more outgoing personality than his big brother, their father, Sean Tuohy Sr.,said it stems mostly from the fact that "Michael is our only analytical kid, SJ is like everyone else — very emotional. "
Still, the elder Tuohy said that "SJ is one of the few people who can break Michael down, they can end up talking on the same level ... they love music, sports, cars, they're both great students. They have a lot more in common than people think. They get along incredibly well and always have."
Along with the Tuohys' daughter, 26-year-old Collins, "they have their own little deal and once in a while they'll let us in."
Said the younger Tuohy, "I think deep down, Mike is a comedian. When he gets into playing host and having people over, he'll get on a roll. He's not shy but he chooses his words carefully."
Just as Tuohy and his family helped Oher get acclimated to a much different environment when they invited him into their home, Oher hopes to do the same for Tuohy in what Oher said he considers his adopted hometown.
"Baltimore's a great city, somewhere he's going to enjoy," Oher said. "I get to go watch him play games. I didn't get to watch him too much in high school. I'll get to hang out with him a little bit and help him enjoy the area."
Tuohy can see how much his big brother loves Baltimore.
"I think that you can tell when someone comes home and they want to go back," Tuohy said. "When Mike is down in Memphis or Oxford [Mississippi, where he went to college] he has a good time, but he's ready to go back to Baltimore in two weeks' time or three weeks' time. He calls it home and he loves it here and hopefully it'll be the same for me."
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Michael Oher and the Tuohy family. (Baltimore Sun / June 21, 2012)