Foster youth struggle to find 'home'

by Tiffany Griffin (tgriffin@wsbt.com)

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Aging out of foster care

Thomas Hudson (Photo Courtesy of www.pbs.org)

By Tiffany Griffin

While most 18-year-olds are graduating from high school and preparing for college, some are leaving foster care and preparing for a life on their own.

Foster care is a process that leads to a permanent home for the child. But what if the child is never reunited with their family? And what if that child is never adopted?

According to the Child Welfare League of America, more than a half a million children live in foster care in the United States and this year, more than 20,000 will age-out of the program. If a foster youth is not adopted by the time they are 18 years old, they are released from the program and are no longer under the care of the state — they are forced to live on their own.

Thomas Hudson, now 25, was once a foster youth who was forced out of the system to live on his own.

“I didn’t know what to do when I left the [foster care] system,” Hudson told WSBT. “I felt like I had just been pushed off a cliff.”

“I went through a lot when I was at home with my mom. When we were separated I had to resort to doing a lot of bad things I never thought I would do,” said Hudson.

Thomas’ story is symbolic to that of many foster youth who go through the system. Although each child has a different experience, many of them struggle to find “home.”

Public orphanages — now group homes — are scarce throughout mid-sized cities such as South Bend. Even in Chicago, it was hard for Hudson to find help.

“I didn’t know where to go. Where I grew up, I didn’t know of a group home to go to because nobody told me … but I wouldn’t want to go there anyway. I wanted to be on my own and … I think I had too much pride to let someone else take care of me,” said Hudson.

Officials from the Berrien County Family Independence Agency say there are anywhere from 300 to 500 foster youth in the system throughout Berrien County at any given time. However, there are only about 120 foster homes. This leaves many children without a shelter or roof over their head.

Hudson says that many foster youth are unaware of the places they can go in their community.

“There might be churches or Christian homes that help with housing foster youth. But that is the problem … nobody was there to tell me where I could go,” said Hudson.

Where do they go?
Most aged-out foster youth end up with friends, living on their own in poverty — and in many cases — on the streets.

But thanks to an 8-year-old nationwide program, they have help. The John C. Chaffee Foster Care Independence Program — created in 1999 — doubles funding to states to increase independent living programs. The Opportunity Passport program through the Jim Casey Youth Opportunities Initiative is just one program that benefited from the funding increase.

Opportunity Passport was piloted in Detroit, Michigan along with 10 additional Michigan counties. The program extends support to aged-out foster youth including debit account assistance, an individual development account and community resources.

According to the Jim Casey informational web site, the John C. Chaffee Program also extends Medicaid for former foster youths until they reach the age of 21.

Although these programs exist, Hudson says that foster youth would have a difficult time adjusting.

“Even when I knew about a program I could attend, how do I get there? What if it’s across town, or even across the state? Where will I live? How will I eat? Most of the time, I felt invisible … it’s just a different world for us.”

Foster care by numbers
From the Michigan Department of Human Services — Michigan alone has nearly 19,000 children in foster care with over 1,600 youth will leave the foster care system. Of those who age-out this year, one out of every three will not have health insurance; 1/3 will live at or below poverty level; more than half will be unemployed and 50% will become homeless. The state of Indiana holds nearly 10,000 foster youth at a time.

Michigan ranks among the top five states with youth emancipating from the foster care system each year. Indiana is much lower.

For more information on foster care in Michigan and Indiana, click on the links in the related content box.

Friday, Dec 19 at 8:35 PM Anonymous wrote ...

Well Read: I disagree with you in so many ways. There are some parents that are said to be 'unfit' that just get that label put on them by bad social workers. That same thing happened to me and my husband. Guess what? As soon as our social worker was changed, our kids came home because the new one saw that there was nothing wrong with our parenting. We were unfairly judged by a power hungry social worker. Not only that, but our kids were ABUSED in foster care and it was blamed on us! Go CPS! Ha!

Monday, Mar 24 at 10:21 PM Well Read wrote ...

Every time we ask the government agencies to take responsibility, they naturally take some freedom along with it. So, we want them to put together another tax basket to catch all those "extra" dollars, so bad parents don't have to worry. If someone is deemed unfit (and for God's sake, don't enlarge that def!), then they should at least pay, and be immediately subjected to mandatory sterilization(reversible perhaps). So many foster kids end up with new sibs in the same sadly inadequate system.

Monday, Mar 24 at 9:57 PM mommy of three wrote ...

I would love to foster a child even an older one but am scared of violence, physcial abuse, sexual abuse issues. I have 3 kids but want more but want to foster since my husband was adopted. Not sure how to be put with a troubled teen, but would love to show one that people care and challenge them to go to college and break the life style and do well, but be a support when they need it and just talk to them to let them know they are not alone, and they are special and their is so much in life yet

Monday, Mar 24 at 9:11 PM wistful thinking wrote ...

Ex-cons get treated better than anyone else in society because they have someone looking out for the rights of the wrong. Too bad the ACLU doesn't think kids are worth it. And forget the government helping more. Where are the churches? What happened to Jesus' saying to look out for the widows and orphans, or don't churches believe in Him anymore? For ten years I went to several churches, from six months to a year , and noone ever saw me there. What makes a person important to a church anyway? $?

Monday, Mar 24 at 4:00 PM rene howitt wrote ...

One needs to ask why so many children are aging out of foster care? Could it be that the system's "best interest of the child" plan of family reunification just isn't working? Perhaps it's time to begin a serious plan to significantly change our system of dealing with abused children. Why should a parent need to be told more than once that this is unacceptable and here are the services we can offer to help you? Their child's entire childhood shouldn't be sacrificed.www.whosebestinterest.com

Monday, Mar 24 at 11:19 AM Osceola wrote ...

I feel for these kids. The schools now days do not even teach kids how to keep a checkbook or how to apply for a loan even through they offer so called life skills classes. It's a shame since these kids won't have anyone else to turn to to learn those skills either. We should have places for them to turn to when they are "kicked" out of the system. Why should ex-cons get better treatment then our kids?

Monday, Mar 24 at 9:50 AM crushed wrote ...

my sisters and brother grew up in foster care we were all separated, they all went to homes, i went to an ophranage, we were distributed across the U.S. and struggled to find one another when we did turn 18. some foster homes did it because they loved children, others did it for the money!!! i think our judicial system needs to try to think of other ways to help families before it goes this far.

Monday, Mar 24 at 4:47 AM Rosetta wrote ...

You can also help by becoming a foster parent! As stated in the article, there is a dire need for Foster Parents, especially in our area. To find out more you can check out www.SAFY.org and also request more information on becoming a Thearputic Foster Parent.

Sunday, Mar 23 at 8:39 PM Saundra wrote ...

You can find an organization that helps the youth developing independent living skills and you can volunteer to teach classes or be an advocate. You can also write to the legislators in your area. The youth will appreciate your contributions.

Sunday, Mar 23 at 12:23 PM sheila wrote ...

what can we do or better yet how can i help i grew up in a group home and can relate to these children if the state takes these children out of their home,s should,nt they at least bear some of the responceability in making sure that they have a fighting chance at a better life I think they should provide a transitional house and a place for training

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