Police investigating more cases of kids molesting kids

by Kelli Cheatham (kcheatham@wsbt.com)

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ELKHART COUNTY — It's something parents never think they'll have to deal with -- learning their child has been molested. But local police say they're investigating more cases involving kids who molest other kids.

One Elkhart mother said a 10-year-old boy had sex with her 4-year-old daughter. She said it happened when she left her daughter with a family friend in March.

"It's really hard ... knowing that happened to her."

The woman, whose identity is being withheld to protect her and her daughter, said the 4-year-old now says she feels dirty.

Madison Center Child Therapist Dennis Fehr said sexual abuse between kids happens more often than you might think.

"Kids will perpetrate on those they have access to," said Fehr. "It's usually people close at hand — it's siblings, it's cousins, it's friends, it's neighbors."

Detectives in Elkhart County are investigating three separate cases of molestation that allegedly happened this week.

According to police records: Monday an adolescent boy fondled an 8-year-old boy he didn't know in Concord Township; Wednesday a 4-year-old Goshen boy allegedly performed oral sex on an 11-year-old boy who asked him to do it; and Thursday an Elkhart mother caught her 9-year-old son in a sex act with another juvenile.

"You really don't want to believe that children can be perping on other children," said Tony Sommer, with the Department of Child Services.

The mom whose daughter was reportedly molested in March told WSBT she still can't believe it.

"I left her with somebody I trusted," she explained.

Even though her 4-year-old daughter is now in counseling, she still feels helpless.

"I can't begin to know how to talk to a 4-year-old about what happened because I don't know what to say or what to do to make things better," she said.

Police say that 10-year-old boy was arrested and taken to juvenile court. A prosecutor dismissed the case.

Failure to report a sex crime against a child is against the law.

Monday, May 19 at 10:23 PM Anonymous wrote ...

You can't blame the schools ... where are all the parents these days? I was also victim to this kind of violence and sexual abuse at a very early age of 9 yrs old from my uncles and my own brother and when told to my parents they just laughed it off....now tell me who are the children supposed to tell????

Monday, May 19 at 9:18 AM SS wrote ...

Children who perpetrate against other children have almost always been victims themselves. It is not the schools or the president, it is an uncle, clergyman, family friend etc.. We need tougher laws. We need parents to believe their children. We need parents to stop being silent because of embarrasment. This is a cycle. Children who are abused will abuse others. Talk to your kids. No matter how unwilling you are, you must let them know it is unacceptable to touch or be touched.

Sunday, May 18 at 5:54 PM Samantha wrote ...

I am a young single mother and I think there should be more one on one talkes between parents and there children and if that don't work just do whats right!,I find out that time outs are the best,and spankings does not solve anything.

Saturday, May 17 at 6:58 PM Melinda wrote ...

Sexual abuse is not a new epidemic, it has gone on forever. Most of the time it is not talked about or ignored. Sometimes it is dismissed by authorities. Educate yourself and your children about sex. What is appropriate and what is not. Educate them what sex is, they here about it know that it is not ok but do not know what it is. Knowledge is power. Empower your children. Be careful who you leave your children with. It doesn't take a village to raise a child it takes parents. No more blaming!

Saturday, May 17 at 6:20 PM Molested Myself... wrote ...

To DMJ-what happened to me when I was a kid was NOT playing doctor! I was forced against my will and i was threatened! I was not a willing participant, and I am going to guess that a lot of other little kids don't want this to happen to them as well! It is a sick society we live in, and it really needs to change! The kid who raped me was only 12 at the time!! YES, it was rape!

Saturday, May 17 at 12:20 PM DMJ wrote ...

I am 61 years old. When I was a child this was laughed off. It was kids "playing doctor" and it was deemed normal childhood learning behaviour. Nowadays, with nearly everyone infected with the anti-sex hysteria of our times, of course you would lock them up until they're 21. I really wonder: Who is sick, you or they?

Saturday, May 17 at 11:33 AM Bobby Coultas wrote ...

This whole situation is just terrible, especially for the children.Just think of the horribe memories they"ll have for the rest of their life, and the counciling they'll have to go through. I still truly beleive a lot of this behavior(and the drugs and sex)started when they took God out of the schools and restricted punishment in schools. When I went to school you were afraid to go the the principle's office, now it's a joke to the kid's to laugh at!

Saturday, May 17 at 10:00 AM MM wrote ...

get back to the BIBLE and this nonsense will stop. 8 years of bill clinton followed by 8 years of george w bush has been a immoral paradise. turn off filth on the tv and net and magazines and newspapers. get back to talking and kids playing. dump video games too.

Saturday, May 17 at 6:26 AM joe wrote ...

NO JUST LOOK WHAT IS ON TV ANDALL AROUND US THE WORLD THINKS SEX IS WHAT MAKES THE WORD GO AROUND I AM VERRY SAD ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON WITH ARE KIDS

Saturday, May 17 at 2:24 AM person wrote ...

I agree with Ed. Meida/TV is saturated with sex. Since TV is the 21st century babysitter, kipds are overexposed to it all. I hate to tell ya Bill, but kids learn thier behavior and get thier ideas mostly outside of school. Video games are sources too. Hopefully all these children get the help/conseling they need.

Saturday, May 17 at 1:56 AM Molested myself 31 years ago... wrote ...

This happened to me as a child. I was about 9 years old. The neighbor boy was 12. He cornered me and threatened me and then penetrated me in an alley behind my house. I was scared to death and felt so dirty. I never told my parents, I just dealt with it. I really had some major issues for a while. I wasn't the same little girl anymore. I couldn't understand why he would have done that to me. PLEASE, if this happens to your child, get them counseling...they definately will need it!

Saturday, May 17 at 1:18 AM op wrote ...

makes you wonder what is going on in the homes of the children who are acting like this. how sick! someone so young would have no idea about sex unless it was taught to them somehow.

Friday, May 16 at 11:11 PM A Mom who's there right now... wrote ...

I have a six year old son who is a victim of this kind of sexual abuse. As a mother, it is heartwrenching knowing that your child has had to endure this kind of pain. I could go on and on for hours about this subject, but I can say that you can never be prepared for this.

Friday, May 16 at 11:02 PM fip wrote ...

the kids who do such a act should be locked up in a juvenile detention center until there twenty first birthday.

Friday, May 16 at 9:26 PM Anonymous wrote ...

After reading this I am in complete shock. As a mother of a 6 year old I can't even imagine what I would do if this happened to my daughter. And kids at this age where are they learning to do something like this. They are still babies at 10 years old. It's really sad to think something like this could happen. Are they investagating the parents of the children that did it.

Friday, May 16 at 6:56 PM Ed wrote ...

That is what happens when most TV and advertising is all based on sex and parents don't monitor what their children watch. Further to many parents want to be the kids friend instead of teaching right from wrong and disciplining them. Times outs; like constant threats or yelling are a sorry joke that don't work.

Friday, May 16 at 6:38 PM How Sad wrote ...

That was a good story, as far as opening peoples' eyes to what is happening around us...until the last 2 lines: "A prosecutor dismissed the case. Failure to report.... against the law." So it's against the law not to report it, but once it's reported, it no longer matters, because it just gets dismissed?!? What kind of message is that sending? What does that say to the poor 4 year old victim? At age 10, a child knows right from wrong, and should be punished for actions such as those!

Friday, May 16 at 6:33 PM Bill wrote ...

This is happing because the schools are teaching sex education to third and fourth grade kids.This should not be tought in the schools.If they have to wait until freshman year.When i was in school this was not something that was a no no,if you was cought discussing sex you was sent home and your parents had come in befor you could return to school.You also got a failimg grade in all of your classes that you missed.

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